Are you good at positive thinking? Do you expect good
things to happen and so they do?
Or do you say "Nothing good ever happens to me"
-
and so it doesn't? Without positive thinking,
nothing will!
Do you
want to become more positive in yourself
and in your outlook on life?
It's all up to
You!!
There are ways
to make a moment of sadness
turn around....
I know that
you can't see it in the moment...but you
can practice everyday and you will be able to control
your own emotions...and it will make you feel better
which will change the
circumstances into positive
ones!!
I practice it
everyday!! And people are constantly
asking me "Why do you do what you
do?"
Because - I Love All People and feel that all people
deserve to be happy!
I had my
share of really down in the dump
days....which I now realize were just wasted days,
unproductive days, time that I lost....
No More!!
"Change has a considerable
psychological impact on
the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening
because it
means that things may get worse. To the
hopeful it is encouraging because things may get
better. To the confident it is inspiring because the
challenge exists to make things
better."
King Whitney Jr.
Even when I was ill
recently with a severe sinus
infection I took the time to gather information from
the
television....(which by the way I don't watch much
of)!
I watched cooking shows when I
couldn't lift my
head...but the sound of the excited and energetic
chefs were my
"feed" into my subconscious of positive
influence!! It worked....I found myself
smiling
even when I was in pain....
I watched dog shows and pet training shows
because
animals have a way of touching our heart. Just to
see the incredible
creatures that our creator has given
us to do so many things and yet they all
depend
on us to care for them...when all reality they "take
care of us" - by just being
them!!
And as I started to feel better, I started to watch older
movies that brought
me to my Now...what do I
mean...well, everything we have done in the past has
brought us to where we are now...(The Law of
Attraction). And I used to watch
a lot of romantic
movies because years ago I was in a relationship to
which I didn't
wish to be! So, I re-fueled my heart
with the movies that I watched then that made me
feel
warm inside and happy about being loved....and it
brought me to the realization
of how "Happy" I am
now!!! Because the movies I watched are the reality
that I live
now!!
Sometimes we should do this to remember how
"Blessed" we are!!
"You may believe that you are responsible for what you
do, but not for what you think.
The truth is that
you are responsible for what you think, because it is
only at this level
that you can exercise choice.
What you do comes from what you
think."
unknown
The Note Book was the first movie that my husband
and
partner for life watched together....and we both
knew when we watched it was exactly what we
both
desired in life - to be together forever and ever!!
Now the funny part was - I had
never seen it before
him....and I watched You've got mail, Sleepless in
Seattle (at
least 3 times each - I was "down" for 3
weeks! LOL!) This movie was another one of
my feel
good movies for years...Only to have the fact that my
love was standing right
in front of me the day he
walked into my life!!
(For those who have just become
friends with me,
you should know that I was "unhappily" married
before and
abused....but....NOT ANY MORE!!)
But back to the subject....if you learn to control your
thoughts, words and actions - you can control your
emotions and
conditions....
So don't be afraid to "Surround Yourself with Love"!
"The very least you
can do in your life is to figure out
what you hope for. And the most you can do is live
inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but
live right in it, under its
roof. "
Barbara Kingsolver
There is
always love and it IS every where!! You have
experienced in your life at some
time...and when
you take the time to "pull" that memory to the
forefront of your mind,
you can change any "sad"
emotion to a "happy" one!! Doing this every time will
give you the power to control your environment....in
time the negative will
cease to exist because it has No
where to survive in your "Soul"!! Do
you
understand...if you don't allow it....it isn't "welcome"...
It has to go elsewhere!!
Law of Attraction!!!!
You will also see that
people will be drawn to you to
listen to what you have to say. They will like being
around someone who always looks on the bright side
of things!
And that's
my "Food for Thought for Today!!"
Love &
Gratitude - Success :)
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12 Positive Starts:
1. Start living
with purpose.
2.Start being
passionate.
3.Start taking
risks.
4.Start listening with an open
mind.
5.Start making your health a
priority.
6.Start laughing and
playing.
7.Start being good to
yourself.
8.Start doing work that you
love.
9.Start living your own
life.
10.Start learning new
things.
11.Start managing your
money
12.Start spending time with people who matter to
you.
12 Positive
Stops:
1.Stop
worrying.
2. Stop making
excuses.
3.Stop doing work you
hate.
4. Stop wasting your
time.
5. Stop
arguing.
6.Stop trying to be
right.
7.Stop
complaining.
8. Stop making the same
mistakes.
9. Stop doubting
yourself.
10.Stop worrying about the opinions of
others.
11.Stop feeling sorry for
yourself.
12.Stop spending more money than you
make.
From Positive Perspectives
"The Sun rises every day....and so can You!"
Success :)
